She was supposed to have been world famous for her skills, so much so that the President of the United States looked her up for *help* and she can't even help these people get over their petty differences?
Oh, they mentioned that in commentary and it burned me up. The director said something akin to, "Well, I know that Weir's supposed to be a great negotiator even though she's failing miserably at it here, but hey, that was the story needed." I wanted to hit him in his face for that. Gah.
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I think though, he's more afraid of being alone than of being hurt by them.
Hmm. So you think Rodney's social needs are important? I tend to think that Rodney probably doesn't mind being alone and enjoys the pleasure of his own company to that of others, but that may be the "push them away before they push me" aspect you mentioned. I'd have to think about that some more.
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(I can't tell you how long it took me to write this, and how many times I deleted and had to start over...).
And this is mostly why I kept this comment sitting in my inbox for response -- thanks for sharing that information about your friendship with me. It's not easy to admit things like that to someone you don't know very well, so thanks. :)
FWIW, I've been in a friendship like that, but as the other party. And when I finally realized what was going on, that my friend thought for whatever reason that she wasn't good enough for or that I could do without her, I was really surprised. I had never thought her expendable, but I looking back I realized I'd probably inadvertently taken advantage of her willingness to please me in order to ensure I stuck around. (And I'm not implying that's analogous to your friendship at all, just that it was my interpretation of our situation.)
Friendships are so complicated, more so than romantic relationships in some ways, and I can see aspects of that with John and Rodney. John really does take advantage of him and Rodney lets him, probably because of that hero worship you mentioned (and the more I think about that, the more I really see it). Sometimes I really want them to go to couple's counseling even though they're not a couple because some aspects of their relationship can be so WTFy. (On a side note, I'd love to see more fic where John and/or Rodney are on different SGA teams, because those really exploit that WTF factor to both humorous and tender ends.)
So, yes. Thanks for sharing that personal bit with me. :)
Re: SGA S4
Oh, they mentioned that in commentary and it burned me up. The director said something akin to, "Well, I know that Weir's supposed to be a great negotiator even though she's failing miserably at it here, but hey, that was the story needed." I wanted to hit him in his face for that. Gah.
Hmm. So you think Rodney's social needs are important? I tend to think that Rodney probably doesn't mind being alone and enjoys the pleasure of his own company to that of others, but that may be the "push them away before they push me" aspect you mentioned. I'd have to think about that some more.
And this is mostly why I kept this comment sitting in my inbox for response -- thanks for sharing that information about your friendship with me. It's not easy to admit things like that to someone you don't know very well, so thanks. :)
FWIW, I've been in a friendship like that, but as the other party. And when I finally realized what was going on, that my friend thought for whatever reason that she wasn't good enough for or that I could do without her, I was really surprised. I had never thought her expendable, but I looking back I realized I'd probably inadvertently taken advantage of her willingness to please me in order to ensure I stuck around. (And I'm not implying that's analogous to your friendship at all, just that it was my interpretation of our situation.)
Friendships are so complicated, more so than romantic relationships in some ways, and I can see aspects of that with John and Rodney. John really does take advantage of him and Rodney lets him, probably because of that hero worship you mentioned (and the more I think about that, the more I really see it). Sometimes I really want them to go to couple's counseling even though they're not a couple because some aspects of their relationship can be so WTFy. (On a side note, I'd love to see more fic where John and/or Rodney are on different SGA teams, because those really exploit that WTF factor to both humorous and tender ends.)
So, yes. Thanks for sharing that personal bit with me. :)