There was a post in technosage's LJ about how the nanites in Weir could be seen as subjugating women or something like that. Most of the time I agree with her meta, but this was so whu? to me that I knew I wouldn't agree with her so I just sort of stopped reading it. Yeah, I just had to stop reading the post I mentioned, because I knew I'd never read it, and I have this habit of getting *really* into those kinds of things, where I have to read *every* comment, and *every* post and it eats up all my time, and makes me feel not-good (ie. angry, frustrated, *head desk*-y).
I think people just read too damn much into things. Almost anything can be turned into an "--ist" issue if you really want to make it that way. I remember during the whole race debate someone saying that SGA is filled with really liberal people who are hard thinkers, but SGA as a fandom is so goofy and fun, that we don't really have anywhere to apply our "thinkiness" except on each other. And that statement rings true for me. I started off in the Queer as Folk fandom, and as you know, QaF is *full* of political issues. It was also airing in a time where those political issues were particularly relivant. I know that Canada was going through the debates over legalizing same sex marriages during it, as well as a few other countries. The US is still fighting for better homosexual rights. What are SGA fans going to fight for though? The exsistance of UFOs? No. Instead we have campaigns to bring characters back from the dead. :P Which is important to us, but doesn't really make us feel like we're making a social change. So fans nit pick over small things and each other.
One of the things that got me about the race debate was that it was nit picking over each other. If it had been about racism in the show I wouldn't have been able to argue against it all that much, but picking on fans, and trying to make sweping statements got my hackles up.
Crying misogynism/racism/phobia/etc. into every little thing is just so much wolf crying, and ends up making people not care about the truly relevant problems. It also doesn't creat a very welcoming place to be, because people feel that as soon as you cry *insert ism* that if you're a good liberal thinking fan, that you have to agree, because isms are *bad*. It gives those making the ism statements a lot of power. For example during the race debate, I made a post about how I thought we were mislabeling the problem, and because I wasn't loudly proclaiming that racisim is bad, and bad fandom for thinking otherwise, I was cast in a negative light. It hurt, and also? It made me never want to post thoughts on matters like this again. So all it did was stop talking for certain people, ostrasize others, and generally leave hurt feelings *everywhere*.
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Yeah, I just had to stop reading the post I mentioned, because I knew I'd never read it, and I have this habit of getting *really* into those kinds of things, where I have to read *every* comment, and *every* post and it eats up all my time, and makes me feel not-good (ie. angry, frustrated, *head desk*-y).
I think people just read too damn much into things. Almost anything can be turned into an "--ist" issue if you really want to make it that way.
I remember during the whole race debate someone saying that SGA is filled with really liberal people who are hard thinkers, but SGA as a fandom is so goofy and fun, that we don't really have anywhere to apply our "thinkiness" except on each other. And that statement rings true for me. I started off in the Queer as Folk fandom, and as you know, QaF is *full* of political issues. It was also airing in a time where those political issues were particularly relivant. I know that Canada was going through the debates over legalizing same sex marriages during it, as well as a few other countries. The US is still fighting for better homosexual rights. What are SGA fans going to fight for though? The exsistance of UFOs? No. Instead we have campaigns to bring characters back from the dead. :P Which is important to us, but doesn't really make us feel like we're making a social change. So fans nit pick over small things and each other.
One of the things that got me about the race debate was that it was nit picking over each other. If it had been about racism in the show I wouldn't have been able to argue against it all that much, but picking on fans, and trying to make sweping statements got my hackles up.
Crying misogynism/racism/phobia/etc. into every little thing is just so much wolf crying, and ends up making people not care about the truly relevant problems.
It also doesn't creat a very welcoming place to be, because people feel that as soon as you cry *insert ism* that if you're a good liberal thinking fan, that you have to agree, because isms are *bad*. It gives those making the ism statements a lot of power. For example during the race debate, I made a post about how I thought we were mislabeling the problem, and because I wasn't loudly proclaiming that racisim is bad, and bad fandom for thinking otherwise, I was cast in a negative light. It hurt, and also? It made me never want to post thoughts on matters like this again. So all it did was stop talking for certain people, ostrasize others, and generally leave hurt feelings *everywhere*.