I totally hear what you're saying. The only reason that I know I want to lose weight now is because I'm going to *have* to if I want to get into any sort of law enforcement academy.

My grandmother was the sort of person who would rag on me endlessly about my weight and it used to piss me off. It was only made worse recently when she started off to me and my mother (we're both heavy) and I knew for a fact that I had actually *lost* a little recently because that was right after my night security stint when I wasn't eating hardly anything.

I really wish people would just let weight be. It should only be an issue if it's getting to be extremely unhealthy.