My grandmother was the sort of person who would rag on me endlessly about my weight and it used to piss me off. It was only made worse recently when she started off to me and my mother (we're both heavy) and I knew for a fact that I had actually *lost* a little recently because that was right after my night security stint when I wasn't eating hardly anything.
God, I just wish that people would not talk about wight. Just leave it alone. It can never end well. I had one friend when I was in high school who had lost a lot of weight, and I think she wanted to inspire me to as well, so that every time I'd see her, she'd ask me if I had lost weight. That's just stupid, because, I totally hadn't, and it makes me wonder how fat I am in your head that you're constantly thinking I'm smaller than you remembered.

It should only be an issue if it's getting to be extremely unhealthy.
Yeah, the minute I have to quit my job because I'm too fat to get out of bed everyday, they you have the right to harass me about it. But I'm living a perfectly healthy life style so leave it be. If I want your opinion, I'll ask for it. *grumps*

I'm glad to know it's not just me though.