What you mentioned sounds like one of the issues I had about the person with whom I had the falling-out. I finally got to the point where I just said, yanno, LJ is supposed to be fun and it's not so I need to let the not-fun stuff go, so I defriended her, and she never said anything to me about it. She was probably happy to get rid of me. :P
Whether or not I friend them back depends on why they friended me in the first place. Right after I participated in the QaF darefic thing I had quite a few people friend me, but since I'd already decided I wasn't going to write fic anymore (if you read that fic, you'll see it's no great loss LOL), so unless we had other things in common, I didn't bother adding them back since they'd just be disappointed in my LJ anyway.
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What you mentioned sounds like one of the issues I had about the person with whom I had the falling-out. I finally got to the point where I just said, yanno, LJ is supposed to be fun and it's not so I need to let the not-fun stuff go, so I defriended her, and she never said anything to me about it. She was probably happy to get rid of me. :P
Whether or not I friend them back depends on why they friended me in the first place. Right after I participated in the QaF darefic thing I had quite a few people friend me, but since I'd already decided I wasn't going to write fic anymore (if you read that fic, you'll see it's no great loss LOL), so unless we had other things in common, I didn't bother adding them back since they'd just be disappointed in my LJ anyway.