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[paraka]

Ok, I need some advice from you guys.

How do you break up with someone? Someone you have sort of been dating but not seriously, and you've realised that you have nothing in common other then the fact that you both speak English?

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[scatterheart.livejournal.com]

If it hasn't been all that serious I think the best thing would be to just tell him outright that you like him (if you do), but that you just don't have anything in common and you can't see yourself continue dating him. I don't know, it might be hard to just come out and say something like that instead of finding an excuse, but in breakups I think honesty is very important. And if you really have that little in common I'm sure he'll have noticed, too. :)

Good luck!! *hugs*

[paraka]

Well she doesn't know him that well, and that's part of the problem, it's more that they seem to want different things from the relationship. I mean Sara has tried going on dates with this guy, but well they haven't really been the right kind of dates I guess, and so he's wanting to get physical, and Sara doesn't know anything about him. So that's really more of the issue.

The honesty thing is a good idea, it just makes it kind of ackward :S

Thanks for the help!